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By: jameystegmaier

jameystegmaier — Fri, 29 May 2009 17:31:19 +0000

Great point about the CC or BCC.

Congrats on the promotion!

By: Lori

Lori — Fri, 29 May 2009 16:37:50 +0000

ew. emoticons. I’ve learned my lesson : (

By: Lori

Lori — Fri, 29 May 2009 16:36:58 +0000

Yes, for the most part I think you and I are on the same page regarding the ‘reply all’ thread. I may exercise the choice a bit more, as is my prerogative

In terms of controlling the RSVP situation, some of the responsibility lies with the sender: they have the choice to use cc or bcc. Why use cc if you don’t want to start a conversation?

And no damage to the cube wall, just a loud noise. I didn’t get a direct “talking to”, but I did acknowledge the incident and my poor judgment in a subsequent conversation with one supervisor who cautions me against being too argumentative (and aggressive, which he and I both know, but he refuses to say directly because he’s so non-confrontational). I’m human, this trait is one of the flaws I’m working on.

But I still kick-ass with CSS and was recently promoted! So ultimate lesson? I’m awesome

By: jameystegmaier

jameystegmaier — Fri, 29 May 2009 15:40:35 +0000

Thanks for the great reply. You have a good point about #6. I’d still contend that for an RSVP, you shouldn’t reply to all (unless it’s a small group and you know everyone and you have some info to share that would be helpful for everyone). There are certainly exceptions to the rule.

It’s also hilarious that you punched your cube wall. Did you cause damage to the wall?

By: Lori

Lori — Fri, 29 May 2009 15:30:37 +0000

even though I’m not a guy…
1. yum. Cooking it is good, too, of course. (and have you tried kale? it’s my new favorite green in the winter)
2. couldn’t agree more! I’ve thrown hard looks to people in public over this behavior. And how about scrolling through ring tones, or playing music via your phone without headphones? Not appropriate for the subway or a waiting room. Or any public places for that matter.
3. uh. I need to work on this one. I know, I know.
4. yep.
5. double yep.
6. This point is the only one in which I’ve gotta disagree with you somewhat. Like all things on the internet (blogging, commenting, Facebook, Twitter), ‘reply all’ can be used appropriately or inappropriately. Regarding RSVPing, a ‘reply all’ of yes can build excitement and consensus, witty jokes and all. One crucial consideration is the size and content of the cc list. (how many people do you know? how many people could you potentially annoy?) Yes, people abuse ‘reply all’, but to blanketly ban the use of it is an overreaction. Education is the key.
7. In frustration, I punched my cube wall recently at work for effect. Unprofessional and poor decision on my part… I was a least cool-headed enough not to injure my hand. I’m a performer, not a fighter.
8. The men in my life have been following this unknown rule without my knowledge. Carry on!

By: Trevor

Trevor — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:56:48 +0000

Still…it’s like threatening to beat someone up by pelting him with cotton balls.