On rare occasions I read a blog entry so profound and deep that I immediately need to share it far and wide. That happened today after I read “The Oldest You’ve Ever Been” on Sarah Meets World.
I admitted in my tweet for the blog that I hadn’t fully processed the post. I’m sure you’ve had those moments where you encounter something so beautiful or brilliant that you need to let it sink in a bit, and even then you may not fully comprehend why you were moved so much. That’s where I am now.
I can’t even attempt to summarize the post, because there’s a lot going on (and it’s not even a long post). So I’d highly recommend you just read it and then come back here.
Here’s the one paragraph I’ll pull in here. It’s too good not to be repeated:
At any given moment, you are the oldest you’ve ever been. Thus, maybe in the moment you’re more likely to perceive yourself as capable, whereas in hindsight (with the benefit of being even older) you aren’t going to think you were even remotely suited to the task. Maybe you’re doing things right now simply because you don’t know you can’t.
I spent a lot of time reflecting on this in terms of my own life, and I came up with two conclusions:
I think it’s the juxtaposition between those two types of memories that has caused Sarah’s blog entry to cut so deep. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self that no one at that birthday party really knew what was going on–they just decided to jump in the fray anyway and go with the flow.
In fact, I wish I could tell my current self the same thing whenever I walk into a room full of people.
I don’t mean to make this about my social anxiety. Sarah’s blog entry is about so much more than that (both for my life and in general), and I’m not going to attempt to cover it here. I mostly just wanted to share it with you in case you connected with it as much as I did. I’d love to hear your thoughts about it as they apply to your life.