I want to preface this post with a disclaimer: I worked as a server in two restaurants during summers in college. I took my job quite seriously, as I was contemplating opening a restaurant after I graduated. Because of that experience, I have a huge amount of empathy for servers, and I try not to complicate their job for the benefit of both parties. It’s exceptionally rare that I will tip less than 20%.
Tonight I came very close to tipping less than 20%.
I don’t want to make a big deal out of it, as in the grand scheme of things, it’s fine. Basically, we finished our meal, and I realized that we hadn’t seen the server in a while. The server did finally show up, but the whole process of running our credit cards took an incredibly long time. In total, I would say that it was 1 hour between when we finished eating and when we actually signed off on the bill. It wasn’t a busy restaurant, and there were 3 servers working…I have no idea what happened.
Anyway, it got me thinking: Which part of restaurant experience is the most likely to be a dealbreaker for you? Assuming all goes well, here are the categories:
After tonight’s experience, I lean towards saying that an abysmally slow checkout process can damage the overall experience the most…but looking at that list, I’m not so sure. I think the most crucial element of a restaurant meal for me is how long it takes for me to get something–anything–on my stomach. It doesn’t even have to be the appetizer or main course–some chips or complimentary bread will do just fine. But if I’m sitting around for an hour without receiving anything, I’m going to get grumpy.
I want this to have a positive twist, so I’m trying to think of which of those elements has the potential to outshine all others. For me that’s probably the main course. If it’s delivered in a timely manner, it’s delicious, and the server keeps my water full, I can walk away incredibly pleased with the choice to eat out.
What about you? What can make or break your restaurant experience? It doesn’t necessarily need to be something on my list.