A few weeks ago I started going through some advice from 90-year-olds, as compiled by Sahil Bloom, to share my thoughts. Here’s the latest addition to this series.
#11: If something has a minor issue, repair it right away.
I agree with the spirit of this idea: Don’t let little problems pile up, because they’ll eventually turn into big problems. At the same time, sometimes it’s all too easy to only focus on the quick, little things and delay bigger, long-term projects (the solution for which is often to break those long-term projects into smaller, bite-size steps).
#12: The most damning lie you can tell is the lie you tell to yourself.
This is a great insight, and a challenging one.
#13: No one has ever argued their way to happiness.
I’m a little confused what the insight is here. Is it that nothing good comes of arguing? I can kind of see that, particularly when people become so entrenched in an opinion or belief that they completely close the door to learning, evolving, and growing. As for happiness specifically, though, I think at least part of happiness is a choice, and sometimes that might requires some internal debate.
#14: If you’re going to lose a fight, make sure the other person thinks twice before fighting you again.
This seems aggressive, and almost directly contradictory to the previous point. Why are we fighting? Why is the opponent the focus of the solution? How about, “If you find yourself in a fight, try to turn it into something else.”
#15: Getting old is no picnic, but it’s much better than the alternative.
I’m sorry to say it, but this is an empty axiom with nothing actionable about it. At best, it’s a reminder on those days when we feel old that there’s still plenty to love about life.
What do you think of these as they apply to your life?